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	<title>Comments on: modern etiquette, like regular etiquette, eludes me</title>
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		<title>By: mfm</title>
		<link>http://www.notmartha.org/archives/2006/11/29/modern-etiquette-like-regular-etiquette-eludes-me/#comment-188</link>
		<dc:creator>mfm</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Dec 2006 18:32:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yeah, i agree that "best" is ok. i don't think i would use it the first time i ever emailed someone, but i'm usually emailing with coworkers who don't use salutations or closings at all, just like in the NYT article. 
i sometimes use "All best" if i want to be a bit warmer. i use "Thanks much" if i am sticking someone with a task and expect it to be done.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yeah, i agree that "best" is ok. i don't think i would use it the first time i ever emailed someone, but i'm usually emailing with coworkers who don't use salutations or closings at all, just like in the NYT article.<br />
i sometimes use "All best" if i want to be a bit warmer. i use "Thanks much" if i am sticking someone with a task and expect it to be done.</p>
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		<title>By: Squisita</title>
		<link>http://www.notmartha.org/archives/2006/11/29/modern-etiquette-like-regular-etiquette-eludes-me/#comment-88</link>
		<dc:creator>Squisita</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Dec 2006 00:54:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>"Yours very truly" is really popular where I work and I don't know what to make of it.  "Yours" alone seems romantic.  "Yours truly" seems redundant, since it is often used alone to mean "me."  I usually close with "Thanks," because there's usually something to be grateful for, if only, "Thanks for your time."</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>"Yours very truly" is really popular where I work and I don't know what to make of it.  "Yours" alone seems romantic.  "Yours truly" seems redundant, since it is often used alone to mean "me."  I usually close with "Thanks," because there's usually something to be grateful for, if only, "Thanks for your time."</p>
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		<title>By: Letty</title>
		<link>http://www.notmartha.org/archives/2006/11/29/modern-etiquette-like-regular-etiquette-eludes-me/#comment-77</link>
		<dc:creator>Letty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Dec 2006 05:36:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Don't sweat it girl.  I've been using 'best' for a long time and the last thing I regard it as is a brush off.   The others (sincerely, regards...) are too stuffy for my taste.  They're being kooky and you know---consider that it was probably some sleep-deprived, slightly hungover intern that wrote that bit of swill in order to "help out" for the day.
Best, 
^_^</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Don't sweat it girl.  I've been using 'best' for a long time and the last thing I regard it as is a brush off.   The others (sincerely, regards...) are too stuffy for my taste.  They're being kooky and you know---consider that it was probably some sleep-deprived, slightly hungover intern that wrote that bit of swill in order to "help out" for the day.<br />
Best,<br />
^_^</p>
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		<title>By: May</title>
		<link>http://www.notmartha.org/archives/2006/11/29/modern-etiquette-like-regular-etiquette-eludes-me/#comment-60</link>
		<dc:creator>May</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Dec 2006 18:16:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I often use "Take care".</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I often use "Take care".</p>
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		<title>By: Kate</title>
		<link>http://www.notmartha.org/archives/2006/11/29/modern-etiquette-like-regular-etiquette-eludes-me/#comment-52</link>
		<dc:creator>Kate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Dec 2006 13:38:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aaaaggg! I've been "best"-ing my e-mail sign offs for years!!!  I hate "cheers" unless I know the person is British--it just sounds so fake to me coming from an American.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aaaaggg! I've been "best"-ing my e-mail sign offs for years!!!  I hate "cheers" unless I know the person is British--it just sounds so fake to me coming from an American.</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
		<link>http://www.notmartha.org/archives/2006/11/29/modern-etiquette-like-regular-etiquette-eludes-me/#comment-11</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Dec 2006 09:07:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I use "Regards" or "Kind regards" at work.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I use "Regards" or "Kind regards" at work.</p>
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		<title>By: Heather</title>
		<link>http://www.notmartha.org/archives/2006/11/29/modern-etiquette-like-regular-etiquette-eludes-me/#comment-8</link>
		<dc:creator>Heather</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Dec 2006 07:03:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'm big on "Cheers" to close work emails, and "Rock" to close personal ones. But that's because I'm hardly formal.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I'm big on "Cheers" to close work emails, and "Rock" to close personal ones. But that's because I'm hardly formal.</p>
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		<title>By: Phil's Blogservations</title>
		<link>http://www.notmartha.org/archives/2006/11/29/modern-etiquette-like-regular-etiquette-eludes-me/#comment-7</link>
		<dc:creator>Phil's Blogservations</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Dec 2006 03:00:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Signing Your Emails...&lt;/strong&gt;

Ever read an article in a high-profile publication that implies you've been doing something totally wrong for, like, fifteen years?...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Signing Your Emails...</strong></p>
<p>Ever read an article in a high-profile publication that implies you've been doing something totally wrong for, like, fifteen years?...</p>
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